Amid the shifting political landscape for LGBTQ+ couples, Emily and Gen decided to expedite their wedding, setting aside their original plans. Finding renewed excitement by the cozy aesthetic of the The Flower Cottage by Sapphire & Lace, they organized a micro-wedding with about twenty of their closest family and friends, beautifully captured by photographer Carly Ferraco. “Though we were frustrated that this was not originally what we had in mind, we decided to take the day back and make it ours, as that was most important,” explained bride Emily. Gen designed their stationery, while Emily baked their cake, topped with delightful layers of fresh fruits and herbs. The couple was married on the anniversary of their first date, taking a private moment outside the cottage to read their vows to one another. Inside, the space offered an elevated floral shop vibe and provided the couple with floral design, with a simple ceremony held in front of the hearth adorned with arrangements. They incorporated personal touches throughout the day, including the special moment of cutting their cake with their own swords from the Pittsburgh Renaissance Faire, which is an annual outing for the now newlyweds and their friends.
About the Couple
Emily and Gen met through mutual friends while looking for roommates at Point Park University. They quickly became close friends and shared an apartment on campus with four other friends. It didn’t take long before the two began dating.
Originally, they had planned to get engaged in 2025, hoping to save money for a big wedding a couple of years later. However, concerned about their legal rights as a queer couple, they decided to expedite the process. Although Emily had originally envisioned a grand engagement, she ultimately planned a small, intimate proposal in their home after receiving Gen’s ring in the mail. Their elopement evolved into a micro-wedding, with about twenty of their closest friends and family in attendance.
About the Wedding
From the couple…
The original intent of our 2025 wedding was to protect our relationship and union, as we were uncertain about the future of the LGBTQIA+ community. Though we were frustrated that this was not originally what we had in mind, we decided to reclaim the day. With only two months to plan, we got started right away. We chose January 4th, the anniversary of our first date, for the occasion.
We found a small, unique venue that reflected Emily’s cozy cottage aesthetic and love of flowers. We honored Gen’s love of Dungeon and Dragons by using fantasy-inspired decor and accessories. We even cut our cake, baked by Emily, using a sword purchased from the Pittsburgh Renaissance Faire, which we attend every year with our friends. Every aspect of our wedding reflected who we are as individuals and as a couple. It was a perfect day!
Favorite Moment
From bride Emily…
Gen and I got ready together, which gave us time to decompress before the big day ahead. Every moment felt intimate, relieving any of the wedding day stress. Looking back, I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. We got to start a new chapter of our lives together with the people we love most. There’s nothing better than that.
