When the little people of your life take up a big piece of your heart, it only makes sense that you want them to be a part of your celebration! These ideas for how to include kids in your wedding are not only a ticket to a fun time, but are surefire ways to show them just how special they are to you. From taking their input or giving them a shoutout, to giving them an official role throughout the day, let this list of ideas inspire you!

Ask them to tag along.

Before the big day, include them in some fun pre-wedding events, like dress shopping, tuxedo shopping, any spa days, cake tasting, or your wedding shower.

Play their favorite songs.

Something simple such as asking kids for song recommendations to add to your DJ’s playlist not only makes them feel valued, but is a memory you’ll share together. Imagine how excited they’ll get when they hear the tune playing.

Incorporate their favorite color.

Be it the main shade of your color palette or a subtle accent in your decor or wedding cake, including a child/children’s favorite color is such a sweet touch. They’ll be sure to notice and when they mention it, you get to say “I choose it for you!”

Share a first look together.

This instant tear-jerker moment is one that you won’t regret. The authentic expressions on their faces are ones you’ll cherish in your wedding gallery for years to come.

Have them sign your marriage license.

Yes, this can actually happen! We’ve even seen babies dip their hands in paint and “stamp” the certificate as an official seal of approval. How cute and meaningful!

Give them a special role.

From being an usher and handing out ceremony programs, to leading the procession, carrying a sign, escorting mom or dad down the aisle, or leading a confetti toss or bubble exit, there are many jobs you can assign to children on your big day.

Include them in the ceremony.

Dedicating a special part in your wedding ceremony towards your kids is usually cause for lots of happy tears and emotion. This can mean including them in your vows or getting creative, such as having a sand pouring unity ceremony.

Dance together.

After or even during your first dance as a newly married couple, ask your kids to join in! Depending on the number of children in attendance, you could also dedicate a song for them all to come dance with the newlyweds.

Allow them to give a speech.

Kids have a lot of love in their hearts. Allow them to express their emotion of the celebration through joy-filled words. And if you do make this happen, we really hope you have hired a wedding videographer because this is a moment you’ll want to relive forever.

Get creative.

This can be as simple as having them assist with any DIY projects to creating a kid-friendly signature drink for your menu!