Not everyone has the honor of having grandparents attend their wedding. If you get to see grandma or grandpa in the crowd on your wedding day, consider yourself one of the lucky ones! Because having them is extra special, they are worthy of all praise and attention that can be given. We’ve come up with a list of creative ways to include grandparents in your wedding to not only show your appreciation towards them, but to also let them know how loved they really are!
Plan a day out.
Pre-wedding, include grandma and grandpa in your dress or tuxedo shopping. Afterwards, you can spend more time with them by taking them to find an outfit to wear for the big day. More than anything, they will not only appreciate your time, but they will love the assistance in coordinating their attire as well.
Wear a family heirloom.
This could be a valuable piece that has already been passed through generations or this moment in your life could be the start of a new tradition. Either way, imagine your grandparents’ faces as they see you sporting something that holds meaning to them.
Give them a special role.
Grandma flower girls and grandpa ring bearers will forever be a favorite! Regardless of what role you’re going to give them that day, don’t forget to give them a corsage or boutonniere!
Perform a dance together.
The Generations Dance is always a good option. But don’t be afraid to put your own twist on it and perform something a little more unique.
Incorporate one of their recipes.
This is a simple way for your grandparents to feel super loved and to personalize your day with a tasty touch. It could be something as easy as a valued recipe for the cookie table or even a drink you both enjoy.
Give them something personalized.
These little keepsakes are treasured deeply by grandparents. By customizing something specifically for them, you’re not only showing your gratitude but showing the thought you put into choosing that particular gift.
Display their wedding photos.
There’s no better feel-good moment than taking a walk down memory lane and showing a testament to the love your grandparents share. It’s a great past-meets-present-meets-future moment that you get to be a part of together.
Share a moment together.
Set aside time in your day for a private moment with just them. During this time, you could have them share something about their marriage or any advice for a happy life together that they may have. Regardless of what words and emotions you share during this time, don’t forget to tell them how much they mean to you too.
Express your gratitude.
As we mentioned earlier, having grandparents attending your wedding is remarkable. If you’re making a speech, express your gratitude towards them and honor them being present.
Connect from afar.
If your grandparents are unable to be present, FaceTime them into the ceremony so they can still feel like they are a part of it. They’ll love feeling like they are there even if they can’t be.
