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5 Tips for Giving a Killer Wedding Toast

by Burgh Brides May 10, 2018

If you are giving a wedding toast at some upcoming nuptials, then listen up because you have a BIG responsibility! Some people cringe at the thought of speaking in public, but it is part of the job for important wedding players like the best man, maid of honor, and the father of the bride. In front of all of the couple’s family and friends, you will have to honor them and acknowledge the significance of that special day. This task may seem daunting (and downright terrifying for some), but lucky for you, we are dishing out our five best tips for giving a killer wedding toast to save you any embarrassment or wedding faux pas!

5 Tips for Giving a Killer Wedding Toast. For more wedding planning tips, visit burghbrides.com!

Don’t wing it.

Do some prep work. You don’t need to write your toast out word for word (and if you do, please don’t read it that way from your phone at the reception). But you should at least have a general idea of what you want to say. An outline or even a few bullet points are the way to go. You have a very important job. Don’t leave it to the last minute, going with whatever pops into your head in the moment! 

Keep it brief.

Seriously. 2 – 3 minutes MAX! No one wants to listen to you go on and on…and on…and on. Everyone will be hungry by this point and anxious to get the party started. If you want to keep people’s attention, be concise! 

Be funny.

It’s ok to be funny when giving a toast. Actually, it’s much more entertaining! Crack a few jokes or one-liners and you’ll be a hit with the crowd.   

But limit the inside jokes.

The above bullet point has a caveat. Tell jokes…but make sure the jokes will be understood by most in attendance. Inside jokes are only funny to a few people; that’s what makes them inside jokes. You may get a few laughs from those in the know, but the rest of the guests will be left wondering what’s so funny. Leave the cool kid jokes for another time. 

Remember: It’s a toast, not a roast.

This is not your opportunity to embarrass the newlyweds! Keep it clean. Leave exes out of it, no dirty jokes, and don’t do or say anything that you will regret later or will upset the happy couple. Instead, think good thoughts, speak to the future, and celebrate the love and accomplishments of the couples. 

BONUS TIP: Don’t drink too much beforehand.

It might seem like a few glasses of wine could loosen the nerves, especially if you’re already dreading speaking. But alcohol could have some other side effects. Slurred speech or even a case of the giggles could ruin your toast and make it memorable for the wrong reasons. Keep it light at the cocktail hour; you can party hard when you hand the mic back to the DJ.

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